I am in chains…
with every breath that I take…
I want to fight my captives…
but…
inorder to be free…
I have no choices left to me
& need to give in to their demands…
I have no will
as a woman
in a jewish marriage.
I am having a hard time understanding it all…
so all I can do is make sure that this does not happen to others after me…
THIS IS A WARNING!! DANGER AHEAD:
To all those doe eyed girls about to be wed….
protect yourself
it does not matter how much you love them…
does not matter what kind of “good” family they come from
does not matter how much money you or they might have…
when you sign your ketubah..
you are chaining yourself.
and if unfortunately there comes a day that you need to be FREE of your chains…
you need to make sure BEFORE you sign the ketubah
that you have a WRITTEN contract (a jewish pre-nup & you MUST get a civil marriage BEFORE the wedding) that can break those chains.
Because the SAD FACT is…
if you live in NJ especially…
there is NOT much (rabbis, law, organizations) you have on your side
that can actually help you.
and you will be a hostage…
in the cruel war that is…the Jewish GET proceedings.
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